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Activate your Account

To gain access to our Free Services you need to click the Activate my Account link in the email we sent you. To have this email resent, please click here: Resend Activate my Account Email. This will send you a NEW Password.

Can't access Free Services

To gain access to our free services you need to click the Activate my Account link in the email we sent you. To have this email resent please click this link: Resend my Registration Email This will send you a NEW Password.

Trouble logging in

If you are having trouble logging in with your Username and Password please remember the Username and Password are 'Case Sensitive'. You must enter the Username and password exactly as they appear in your Confirmation email. For example, the password "Bigbird99" must not be entered as "bigbird99".

Forgot your Username or Password

To have a NEW PASSWORD sent to you please click here Send me a NEW Password and enter the email you used to register with. You can change the new password when you log in for security.

Can't find your Registration Email

Please check your Spam/Junk Folder or to have the Registration Email resent pleaese click here Resend my Registration Email. This will send you a NEW Password.

How do I hide my Profile

In the Edit Profile link, where it says Other members can see when I'm online select No and click Save.

How long are my messages kept before deletion

Your messages are kept in your Inbox for 20 days before being deleted.

How to Private Chat

To Private Chat (one to one ONLY)
Click Private Chat in Members Control Panel
In Chat Room click on the Username you want to Private Chat with. A pop up will appear.
Click Private Chat
Begin your Private Chat request!

Cancel my Account

To cancel your Account either Log In and click the Cancel Membership link, or alternatively send us an email requesting to Cancel your account using the email address you used to register with.

My Matches

My Matches is a simple search based on the search preferences you entered when you signed up. You can edit these preferences in "Edit Search Preferences".

Edit My Matches

You can edit My Matches by clicking on "Edit Search Preferences".

Edit Search Preferences

You can edit your search preferences by clicking "Edit Search Preferences".

How do I Edit my Extended Profile

Click Edit Extended Profile in panel menu and then click to Save your changes.

My Profile has been deleted

Possible reasons:
1. You cancelled your account.
2. You violated our Terms & Conditions, for example: Spam Messages. For a full list please see here Terms & Conditions
3. We can not communicate with you via your registered email address and messages are bouncing.

How do I Edit my Profile

Click Edit Profile to edit your 'Basic Profile' and then click Save to save your changes.

How do I Edit my Extended Profile

Click Edit Extended Profile to make your changes, edit and then click Save to save your changes.

How do I Send a Hi

1. Search to find a member first by either clicking on "My Matches" or the "Search" link.
2. Click on their Profile to open.
3. Click the Send a Hi link at the top of their profile page.

How to Send a Message

1. Search to find a Member first by clicking on "My Matches" or the "Search" link.
2. Click on the member Profile to open.
3. Click Send a Message at the top of their profile page. Type your message in the large box and click Send.

How do I Open/Read/Reply to Messages

Log in and click on your Inbox
Click on the Orange Envelope OR the Message Title (under the Subject column).
Click Reply
Type your message
Click Send

How to add members to your Favourites

Search to find the member first
Click their View Profile link to open their profile page.
Then click the Add to Favourites link at the top of the page.

How do I Block a Member

To block a Member from sending you messages:
Click on their View Profile and then click Block at the top of their Profile...You can view and edit members you have blocked in your 'Blocked' List.

Messages missing from your Inbox

If you receive an email to say you have New Mail but the message is missing from your Inbox, then this means:

1. The member is no longer registered on the site and their messages have been deleted.
2. Messages sent with duplicate content are deleted if thought to be suspicious.
3. Messages over 20 days old will be deleted.

When someone sends me a message where does it go

When a member sends you a message, it goes straight into your onsite message Inbox. We then send an email to your personal email address (the email you used to register with) to let you know that you have mail. All communications with other members stay onsite so that you never have to give out any personal information.

My Matches

My Matches is a search based on the Search Preferences that you Save at Sign Up, including Gender, Age and the Country you are looking for. You can edit your Search Preferences by clicking the Edit Profile link in the Panel Menu.

Username Search

You can search by Username by clicking "Search" link. Type the Username in the box provided and click "Search Now".

Search

To perform a new search click the Search link and select your search criteria then either Search Now or Expand Search to add more criteria (then click Search Now for results).

How do I enter different chat rooms

Click on the Chat Rooms link in your member panel, then in the chat room window, click on the 'drop down menu' to select a Chat Room (under the Welcome message, top left).

Uploading Photos

To Upload Photos:
Log in first and click Upload Photos
Click Browse to find your photo on your computer.
Click Upload...you are done!

Filel Types Allowed
-Only jpg or .gif , .bmp or .png image files can be uploaded. The maximum allowed photo file size is: 400 KB To check your picture file size: Click on your Image file > right click > click Properties.
-All pictures uploaded MUST contain a clear picture of YOU. We will not approve pictures containing nudity, cartoons, copyrighted images, pictures including private details or URL's.
-We approve photos as soon as we can, usually within 12-24 hours.
-You can make ONE photo your DEFAULT PROFILE Photo. To do this: Click Upload Photos you will see Use this as default profile picture above each uploaded photo. Select one photo only and click Submit to save this picture as your Main Profile picture.
-Until your photo is approved it will NOT be visible, the system will display the "default / blank" profile picture to other members.
-Once approved All pictures are Public and viewable by all other members, visitors to the site, search engines and web directories.

Are Photos approved first

Yes, we review ALL Photos before we accept them to the site to ensure that they are appropriate. Uploading nudity or offensive material will get your account being deleted, this is a family friendly site. The first photo you upload must be a clear, head and shoulders photo of YOU, not someone else. We will not approve Cartoons, Copyrighted images, URLs or private details, nudity or offensive photos or anything we deem not appropriate for the site. Please allow up to 12-48 hours for your pictures to be approved and appear on the site.

Safety

Safety Online
We do not conduct any criminal checks on people who join this website.
1.

Please do not send any MONEY, documents, Bank/Credit card details to members you have NEVER MET or to members who ask for it.

Stop communicating with them and report them to us.
2. Try to keep all messaging "onsite" and do not include any personal details like email addresses or telephone numbers in your profile or pictures.
3. Do not give out your home address or personal information that you can be traced back to you.
4. Choose a secure password with numbers and digits.

Safety Offline
1.

Please do not send money, documents, credit card or bank details to people who ask for it.

2. Make sure you see people on webcam numerous times before meeting up.
3. Tell someone you know where and when you are going.
4. Keep your mobile phone switched on.
4. Never arrange to meet at your home address. Always meet in a crowded, public place.

Scammers - Don't be scammed!

Scammers are people who register on websites with the sole intention of befriending by deception to obtain money, documents, private/bank details, passports etc. Please do not send ANY money or documents to people who you have never met and to people who ask for it, no matter what they tell you. Please report to us any members asking for money. You can do this by clicking the "Users Profile" and clicking the "Report User" button.

Spam Messages

Spam messages are "duplicate" messages sent to "many members" usually containing email addresses, advertising, URLs and links to external websites. We will remove duplicate messages, and the member who sent them from the site IF thought to be suspicious. You can report members sending these messages by clicking the "Users Profile" and clicking the "Report User" link.

Are members screened in any way

Apart from confirming members email accounts, we do NOT conduct any other background checks or screen members in any way before they register on this website. Please be very careful what information you give out to people on the interent. You use this site at your own risk. We can not be held responsible for any outcomes of you using this site.

Is this site monitored

We may (but are under no obligation to do so) monitor the public areas of this website including Member profiles to ensure that the Terms and Conditions are being adhered to. We welcome Members to report to us any content that is offensive, objectionable or that does not adhere to the Terms & Conditions.

Report User

There are 2 Report User buttons. One at the bottom of User Profiles, and another, at the bottom of the Opened Message sent by the user you want to report.

We welcome members to report to us any content that is offensive, objectionable or that does not adhere to the Terms & Conditions.

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